Alright, so you didn't get it that I'm dumb. Okay.

So, if I get this straight....unless I click on the bottom of an entry that I want to repost it in twitter or facebook, all stays as is. Correct? or do I need to do something with my settings like you posted so that nothing gets shared anywhere unless I state it so?

Sorry, hon....I'm just not that smart when it comes to these things and like you, I don't care for LJ to share my entries on Twitter. So bare with me please. ;)