Hey you can always come knocking - send me a message via LJ or PM on GateWorld. I don't frequent there like I used to do, I'm only at the Sparky thread, but lately it's so slow. *sigh* Some people there are trying to do a good discussion, but overall I think sparky shippers are sad - or latently sad. *sighs again*
I put the show on my mental ignore and I'm happy in the world of fanfics *g* LJ is fun, thankfully.